We are two daughters in our family. I am 30 years old. I have been in an abusive relationship with my younger sister. I learnt she was extremely dangerous to be around one summer night at 12pm.
My 6 year old daughter wanted to stay with her grandparents as they visited my younger sister's house. We had advised our daughter not to go without mom & dad. But she had made up her mind to stay with her grandparents during summer. My mum and dad wanted the same. So that night around 12 pm (midnight) I received a very rude message from my sister's phone saying "Her couple times are affected because my daughter wanted to sleep in their bed. She had stated an example of a similar thing that happened to her sister in law( SIL) son wanted to sleep with her and her SIL jumped in to help them have their bed time/couple time"
I sent my daughter for a sleepover with her grandparents. I responded back saying I will come to pick my daughter and I will make sure this does not happen anymore.
She had responded rudely stating "she does not want to be related to me anymore. She blocked all the messages. She removed me from Facebook".
My 6 year old daughter had deprived of a bond with her grandparents. But my sister does not want her presence in her house. So I picked my daughter up around 12:30 the same night. My mother cried a lot for this and my father almost cried as well. My sister or BIL did not even come down to open the door for us.
My sister uses Facebook as a tool to bully me and put me down before my friends. I was abused in many occasions.
My mother or father says this from my childhood "stay cool! Deal with calm! "
So now I am up to a state where I had prepared me to end my relationship with her and her husband.
I am awaiting for a consultation with a therapist to end it cool! I need happy memories and peace in my life. I do not want to be related to these two people in my life anymore who use abusive words to control others around them. I have also made up my daughter and husband's mind towards that.
Now feel free to pour your thoughts or suggestions on this.
How I figured out she is abusive?
My 6 year old daughter wanted to stay with her grandparents as they visited my younger sister's house. We had advised our daughter not to go without mom & dad. But she had made up her mind to stay with her grandparents during summer. My mum and dad wanted the same. So that night around 12 pm (midnight) I received a very rude message from my sister's phone saying "Her couple times are affected because my daughter wanted to sleep in their bed. She had stated an example of a similar thing that happened to her sister in law
I sent my daughter for a sleepover with her grandparents. I responded back saying I will come to pick my daughter and I will make sure this does not happen anymore.
She had responded rudely stating "she does not want to be related to me anymore. She blocked all the messages. She removed me from Facebook".
My 6 year old daughter had deprived of a bond with her grandparents. But my sister does not want her presence in her house. So I picked my daughter up around 12:30 the same night. My mother cried a lot for this and my father almost cried as well. My sister or BIL did not even come down to open the door for us.
My sister uses Facebook as a tool to bully me and put me down before my friends. I was abused in many occasions.
My mother or father says this from my childhood "stay cool! Deal with calm! "
So now I am up to a state where I had prepared me to end my relationship with her and her husband.
I am awaiting for a consultation with a therapist to end it cool! I need happy memories and peace in my life. I do not want to be related to these two people in my life anymore who use abusive words to control others around them. I have also made up my daughter and husband's mind towards that.
Now feel free to pour your thoughts or suggestions on this.
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